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re Know I know you're right. But we've gone on a few times and we never have been able to get it off the ground. No matter how much I want it, no matter how bad she wants it, something always happens to it. I suppose it's usually my fault. It's complicated. But I love her and have always loved her more then anything. Our geographical locations don't help at all. I'm positive it would be so much easier if one of us would give in to the other's location. But both of us have to where we are and it just makes it that more difficult. I think the other wants the other to come where the other's at-but it just isn't that easy and I guess nothing is. Today I did what I rarely do, and that's look her up and today I saw her on . The same thing happened the last time I did that about a year ago-that shit hurt man, it hurt real bad. She's still so very beautiful and is so my type. I look the same as I did so I know I'm still her type. If anything, I look better then I did lol, no but, there's no doubt in my mind we'd still be attracted physiy. And I can't help but to still be who I was I mean, I've always been mature for my age so I suppose now that I am 'grown' I'm still the same.. (my logic anyway) This life is a trip man. You make all these mistakes only for one day they hit you all at one time and just when you know what to do-you can't do it. Well, you could but, there's consequences. Like I said, complicated. I've always been willing to start a long distance relationship-I guess that's what we basiy did before but then back then, it was even more complicated. Today in my life anyway-it isn't as complicated but still is to some degrees that are enough for me to keep my distance. But the heart wants what it wants. I've always been in love with her and I always will. She probably wouldn't believe that due to me messing things up last time but, it had nothing to do with love and every thing to do with mistakes-mistakes that you can't just get up and walk away from. And so, I remain this tortured soul. Knowing my soul mate is out there and will forever love her, she's my heart soul. Maybe someday it will get easier enough to take a chance but, none of us are getting younger. I guess if I knew she wanted me to reach out to her I would. I mean, I would love to. But the last thing I need right now is to be by the one woman in this life that I love. Sounds pussy of me I know, but I'm no pussy-I just ain't up for that level of pain. I've had enough of that shit for lifetimes... ..thanks for opportunity to vent.

Someone who shares values with someone very special Values
I am looking forward to finding someone who will be honest and loyal, not into games but wants someone special and not out to hurt anyone in the mean time,
I am not a gold digger nor would I want a man who is snobbish, or jealous, in any way, but can understand what I need and want.
I am looking for a long term friendship and if it goes to something more then so be it..
I am a BBW , went back to smoking for the sense of being rejected over and over, but can easily click without.
Are you that special one and can you click with me?
Send a photo, I am a very blunt and open lady
I look forward to someone being just honest.