RE:Are you out there? and other posts in here
Ok so I read the posts in here and in other places on CL, and I keep comming in here to see that most woman are seriously wrong in the head. I see you woman talking about how nothing matters except personality, and then you add into here things like, well you have to be tall, or you have to be a macho man with serious abs or don;t have kids, or don't smoke, or drink or any number of things. I decided tonight I was bored so I am going to make this post my example for thoes still reading. This person wants someone who ISN'T judgemental keep this in mind because her post is full of judging and such. I will show you with comments between ***'s so look for them!
Are you out there? - w4m (anchorage)
I am a single white female with long brown hair. I'm in shape, go to the gym, and have a very feminine hourglass figure. I know a little about a lot of things, don't trust weather forecasting, like action movies over rom coms, still take bubble baths, love to cuddle, collect seashells at the beach, make lists, wear sundresses, watch CSI marathons late at night, and I am considerate, honest, and thoughtful. I'm looking for a casual, no-pressure date that has potential for something more. We can see where it goes!
Please be:
-SWM
-around my age
-outgoing
-mobile *** Ok, what if some guy likes riding a bike or walking, maybe he's really into keeping polution low? hmm... ***
-independent
-honest
-responsible
-funny
-taller than 5'10" (taller than me in heels!) *** here is the tall thing, yep we see this one a lot, some poor short dude was just passed by because he was short.***
-disease free
-well-dressed and spoken *** Oops, guess my jeans just were not good enough to be friends with a possability of something more, cause we all know our clothes are who we are right?***
-respectful to women
-thoughtful
-able to tell the difference between "your" and "you're" *** I'll give here this one, I see people doing that a lot... but still some people may just not be as educated, or maybe that are just a bit drunk at the time! lol***
Please DO NOT be: ***uhoh, do not is writen allll over this....***
-looking for a one night stand
-a drug addict
-retired, married, or with children *** retired? somethign wrong with working hard and being able to retire? really? married, well ok she has us there.. with children.. Ok thats pretty shallow but hey she must not like kids? either way a bit judging. guys with kids must not be worth dating... hmmm ***
-fanatiy religious *** while I can't blame her for this one either it's still a judgement, but lets face it most people don;t really want a fanatic of any kind as a date***
-boring *** dear lorod, what is boring to you may not be to me, and so on... yep....***
-pretentious *** DOH***
-judgmental ******oh right, this is the one I stuck on when I read this... nope you must not be judgemental, but she can be and it's fine! just remember that! ******
-an asshole *** lol yay she just eliminated 90 percent of the human species! not to mention about 99 percent of all males...***
Please reply with the subject line as your favorite movie. I am not spam, but won't reply to messages saying "lol r u spam?". The more you tell me about yourself, the more interested I'll be, so really give me an idea of who you are. Messages with pictures will be given higher priorities, and I'll send pictures back, because while personality is the most important thing, attraction does matter. *** personality is soooo important... now give me a pic! ***
*** ok, well there you have it, and no i'm not attacking this person in any way, I'm sure she is prolly a really nice person when you get to know her, and she will undoubtedly find love and a man she wants. What I just did here was try to open your eyes a bit to just how much you judge people on a daily basis and you don't even know it. Why? because no one points it out to you. If you say you don;t like people who judge, then you don;t like anyone period. We ALL judge, every single person on this planet does, and we do it every day, to everything and person we see. Sometimes it's small stuff, other times it's big stuff. All I can say though is, we are a race that was built to judge things. It's what makes us tick, from food to sents, to clothes, to cars and even people or animals. we judge everything. It's HOW we judge that makes the diffrence. Are we kind about no Strings Attached Sex OR Sutherlin 97479 it? can we truely look at the short guy and think, wow he's short, but I could see past that and give him a chance. Or the guy with the funky hair cut? or the guy who don't dress in designer clothing all the time? Really, woman are prooving how shallow they really are every day, not by judging, but by how they do so. And for thoes woman who have realized somewhere along the way that being so judgemental to the guys you look for has only ended in unhappy relationships, KUDOS, you win at life. Just remember, thoes heart throb, sweep you off your feet awesome guys you look for are the ones that lie, cheat and even beat their wives. Not all, but many. But it's that nerd, or geek, or the short guy who has never fealt someones real love that would have done anything to make you happy, keep you safe, and just love you, and only you. Keep that in mind the next time you break up with that really awesome cute guy you're after that isn't paying his child support, but is busy making a new child as we speak.