Seeking Non shallow female
when replying please send a pic and also put the number 7 in the subject line so I know your not spam
I am just the average guy nothing more nothing less, unless you want to make that decision on your own and get to know me.
To start this off I would like to say as much as I strive not to be like every one else or even like the generalization women out men in and men do it back, That I am like them in a way, we are all male and share many of the same characteristics as well as females do.A lame example would be cats are domesticated right? yet they still share the same mentality and characteristics as the big cats with hunting,
I am somewhat reserved,catious,warry about what I say about myself or what information I give out to people. I have recentley had my name and ssn used by several people and it flipped my whole world upside down, I have also had some crazy people find out where I work and there and start drama, so if you ask me what city I work for or where I actually live Im most likely not going to tell you, for instance is a girl says she works in a salon,daycare or a teacher or a hospital I am not gonna ask you what one lol, all I need to know is that you do it's that simple
I would like to state I am not trying to be intimidating or make people feel awkward,dumb, or stupid I am just trying to help people understand where I am coming from, I hate having some one message me once or twice and then chew me about because I am not gonna sit here and tell them my whole life story..
You do not have to agree with my views but atleast respect me as a person or atleast understand where I am coming from. I am what I would a realist I see things for face value thats its nothing more untill it is proven that there is more, I live by this quote. Prepare for the worste hope for the best....
.I do type in slang sometimes so if you can't handle that then ty drive thru...
.I'm A firemedic meaning a firefighter/paramedic
.I play semi pro football so im into sports I wouldnt say a sports nut but I Enjoy them
.Im as some would say rough around the edges
.I am not a huge conversationlist, I do not like to babble and ramble on
.so if your looking for that sorry im not your cup of tea,
.I normally tell it how it is,
.I was In the National Guard was an MP
maybe that is where I learned to be straight and to the point and answer something with no more then one sentence
I am not one who is into tradition, I do not like to follow the crowd and do the same thing every one else is doing or has done,I like to try to do my own thing only because then it makes it original, I do not know of any state law or a law in the constitution that says we have to follow tradition and do this and do that on a particular day,for example thanksgiving, U may go to 4 different places right? and every one has turkey hmm, Whats wrong with having seafood?
I also am not into catty females, for instance a girl buys a shirt shows it to other girls and they go omg its so cute I wish I had it, Just to comfort them,Lying to them to comformt them is being me disresoectful then being honest and saying it's just a shirt.
.I am not a preppy/pretty boy a f model what ever you want to it
.I am just simply the normal Tshirt and jeans kind of guy. I am not the type of guy who when he goes out he wears ugly ass brown shoes and then has a long sleeve button up shirt on then rools the sleeves up to my elbows.heres a hint guys wear a short sleeve shirt!!!!!!
very quiet and shy. I do joke around alot to hide my shyness
.I have 3 earings 2 in the left 1 in the right.6 tats and no i do not follow the crowd and have skulls dragons or emo stars mine actually pertain to me and my life.
.I do have my faults,imperfections,quarks,and insecruities so I know this hot swingers looking friendship dating for overweight people you do not need to point them out for me.
my weekends are just like my weekdays they go ok,so so,blah,boring,or crappy, so if I say it was ok or im ok thats as good as its gonna get lol.
if your the type of girl who asks questions then run because you do not like the answers then please go else where, There is one 1person who can judge me so I'll leave that up to him not to the rest of the closed minded society
.I have wierd/corky pet peeves. I normally am laid back until one of these pet peeves are done lol
.I am very sensitive to smells particullary food,like mustard the sight and smell of it I will be sick instantly,mayo, and that arby's sauce that white stuff omfg lets just say you will see what i had to eat lol.I try to treat every one fairly and equal. Tho I will say this it is almost 's.My weekends do not vary much from my weekdays do to work and always doing the same thing, my days go as follows,ok,blah and crappy lol.The question every one is going to ask why am I on here what am I looking for is as follows
Why am I on here,
seems like most girls I meet are ALL about looks and money, I am not tryin to play that game
I dated a girl who told me guys are like designer purses you got to have the right one hanging from your arm at the right occasion, sorry not playing that game either
yes I understand attraction is important but can you seriously tell me you would date a 9-10 and that person treats you wrong or is a tool? I see it happen all the time and that yet is another game I will not attempt to play.
I am a person, I do have a personality i do have feelings every now and then lol
Not into rushing things would rather take time to make sure everything clicks rather than to compete with my friends as it seems most people try to do today...
What am I looking for?
I can not specifiy answer this.
I will say everything has to start with a friendship
I have been told several times I have nothing to offer even more so now since I returned from deployment
I like a wide variety of people that includes looks and sizes but I do have standards lol
I am not the type of guy who is gonna you on the first or second email