I do not understand what I said that sounds controlling. one year after we were married I got hurt at work. I ended up with a compression fracture in my spine. I was unable to lift a gallon of milk and unable to hold my 1 week old. My first boy. She says that I become very depressed. I do not re being depressed, however, I can accept that maybe I was. However, she says that I never was the same after that. She said that God must be teaching her, because she grew up taking care of her mother, who was disabled. Now she has me to deal with. From that point on I felt that she distanced herself from me. I worked hard, held 4 jobs at the same time and took care of my in every way. I got up in the middle of the night and warmed the bottle and fed him, I changed his diapers and slept in his crib night after night. I did the dishes, laundry and cleaned the house. I became more frustrated over time because I was working and doing the house work for years. She told me in just over 2 years after our wedding that if she could afford it she would leave me. I was heart broken. I have been doing everything, trying to provide for her and treating her right. We have had tough times but we always had a roof over our heads and food on the table. She had an affair with a married that went on for a year. It ended because he moved to Germany. I was again devastated. Not only did she have an affair, she told me that she loved him. I simply wanted to know at that time if she wanted to make the marriage work or not. She said she did, so I stayed with her. It has been a struggle for me. She said she did not want to feel like she was in 'prison' by my not trusting her. I have tried to give her room. I never brought the subject up. I could not stand to look at the we owned, it was a sore reminder. It was sold. I avoided driving past a local park and a local hotel as they too served as reminders. She used texting and emailing as tools for her 'arrangements'. I have even bought her a new cell phone that has texting, emailing and internet capabilities to show that I want to trust her. In the end I found out she continued to be in contact with him and has set up secret thing I did ask, was that she not be in contact with him. I feel that she has had an ongoing emotional affair with him.
Need a bounce-back relationship
Hi!
The title pretty much sums it all up.
I'm a very cute, super sweet and funny dude.
I'm just a little shy at first but once I get to know you, I become very talkative.
My ex and I left in good terms, but.. I guess I didn't make it out of the relationship
so well, for I've found it difficult to go back to the dating game. *sigh* ..you see,
I'm very good at the "working on the relationship" part, but not so good at the "meeting
random girls out there and trying to get with them" part.
So after 10 months.. I have come to the conclusion that I need to take
affirmative measures to put it together and have fun with a pretty lady.
I already have started trying to force myself to go out to bars, clubs, pubs,
and just about anywhere to meet cute girls...so I figured what the heck,
let's try this as well.
So basiy, I'm looking for a girl to have fun with. If it works out I would
be glad to consider moving on to a more serious relationship, and if not,
at least we could have lots of fun together. Please be drug/disease free
and ready to have lots of fun! Oh yeah, and write your favorite movie as the
header of your message. I'm looking forward to hearing from you! :)
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